Friends before, Friends after
Back in the day I never thought I’d be able to be friends with him and see him and not feel much of anything, but It happened. We’ve seen each other again, chat a little on Facebook. How I did it? Basically I didn’t do anything, I spoke to my ex a few times after we split, and as much as I wished I still had some lingering feelings of some such love or hate I didn’t know all I knew was that I was left feeling sour and frustrated after each talk and that was a few months ago. I still think he truly is a lovely guy, but just not a guy I can be around. The love is gone, but he is still this funny, smart person with whom you can talk for hours. A strong friendship evolved and I’m glad we tried to talk again.